full circle

the same old accusations surfaced yet again, doomed to be buried and exhumed when someone sees fit. stating the obvious, it's true that i am nothing but a selfish son of a bitch, as it is true that i care only about myself first - thus underlining that once more is but a waste of time. the curious thing is, everytime someone blames me for caring about myself first, that someone is merely caring about oneself first - and when we reach a full circle like this, who is right and who is wrong?