the right moment

there is no such thing as the right moment, as in the right moment to say or do anything. there are only things that must be said and done - and delaying them for the sake of a right moment will only lead to have them said and done in the worst possible moment, in the worst possible manner and causing way too much damage around. preparing the way usually does not eliminate the thorns around it - only causes them to grow thicker and sharper than ever. somethings cannot be avoided, after all. just as one cannot avoid death, or ask her to come another day, for there is still so much to be done.