The question is, shall I care to explain? The answer is pretty obvious - I shall not. We've seen plenty of times already that we don't speak the same language, that we don't follow the same code, that we fail to understand the meanings each other try to convey through words we both know but which suddenly seem inscrutable. It has happened on and on, and will go on happening at least for a while. So all explanations are pointless, as they are never meant to enlighten, only to confuse.