whining

this is not entirely true, but still: we are what we want to be, and our life is want we want it to be. yes, there are things beyond our reach and circumstances that we cannot change. but there is a lot that we can do - and there are many things needing our immediate attention, if not action. we can go on complaining and trying to forget by all the means we have, but that won't change anything - it will only make our waking up more bitter every morning. if we cannot change something, we must learn from it, so we can adapt and eventually turn the situation to ourselves. if we can change it - hell, what are we waiting for? is it wise to keep the whining?